Tuesday, January 24, 2012

When it rains...

Silly Anika broke her arm on Saturday night!

After this picture was taken she said, "That was a good cheese."
(referring to her facial expression)

She fell from a step stool about one foot off the ground.
She had been standing on it to turn the lights off and on and off and on.

We called the after hours clinic about 8:30pm and headed right over. We waited forever for the doctor, then had to go get X-rays from the hospital which also took forever. Then we went back to the doctor with the X-rays. It is a buckle fracture just above her wrist. Anika was hardly cooperative. At the hospital when she was getting X-Rays, I could hear her screaming down a pretty long hall even though she was in a room with the door shut. To get her cast on was another ordeal. I was sitting on the table with her on my lap. I was holding her with my arms and legs. It also took Nathaniel a nurse and the doctor a bit of fight to get it on her. She calmed down more or less after Nathaniel started talking about the white padding as a mitten like the one from "The Mitten." I asked her if she thought the big brown bear could fit inside, etc.

Then she was all charm. We were the last ones to leave the office, and she had everyone (6+ people)
in love with her. She was being cute and saying things like: I got an owie. I got a big, big bandaid
(as she held up her cast). I got a picture (X-ray) of my arm. I got a sticker.

We shared a shake on the drive afterward and got home just before midnight.

She has to have the cast on for 5-6weeks, and it can't get wet.
When the doc asked how good of an escape artist she is, I thought of all of the clothes and pajama combinations we have had to try with her to keep her dressed. She has tried to get the cast off and often asks for us to take it off. Her wardrobe options have been limited (we did have a cardigan over this dress).

The first night she didn't want to wear anything, and I finally convinced her to wear a zip-up jacket for pajamas. She had gotten the jacket off by the time I got her the next morning.

Anika needs more help than usual but is managing pretty well.
She is still very busy and hasn't seemed to have a lot of pain.

In the 2 weeks since Seth was born we have visited the doctor and hospital A LOT:

January 7 - Seth was born, stay in hospital
January 8 - Stay in hospital
January 9 - Stay in hospital, barely managed to get discharged
January 10 - Seth to hospital for bilirubin check
January 11 - Seth to hospital for bilirubin check
January 12 - Seth to doctor for weight check and to get frenulum clipped
January 13 - Seth to hospital for bilirubin check
January 14 - nothing
January 15 - nothing, but we discover Anika has croup
January 16 - Anika 2 year appointment
& Seth to hospital for bilirubin check
January 17 - Lina to doctor to get hematocrit checked
& to hospital to get Seth's footprints
January 18 - nothing, but Seth gets a cold
January 19 - nothing
January 20 - Lina to dentist :)
& Nathaniel to doctor for Tdap vaccination
January 21 - Anika to doctor
& to hospital for X-rays
& back to doctor for her cast

And today (January 24) I took Seth for his 2 week check-up
I think we are well on our way to meeting our out-of-pocket max for insurance.


2 Weeks and a Family Picture

This family picture is as good as it will get for now :)

We are enjoying our sweet little guy!

On Saturday Seth was 2 weeks old.
He got a middle name: Seth Aune Hardman (my maiden name)

He is now 10lbs 9 oz and 21.5"
Can he really grow 2.5" in 2 weeks?
Maybe he was measured a little short and/or long.

Maybe we'll get some good pictures of him soon.




Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Prob'y 2

We had a birthday party for Anika on her birthday one week after Seth was born (I planned it quite awhile ago). I thought it would be good for her to be the center of attention, and it was.

Grandma: Anika, how old are you?
Anika: ... Prob'y (probably) two.

We just had grandparents over, and she loved it. Grandpa read her some books. Grandma and Dad played Ring Around the Rosies with her. The grandparents all got to hold Seth too, but she didn't seem to notice much.


Nathaniel put a pen through the middle of the crepe paper and let Anika hold it as it unrolled. She thought that was pretty great.


My friend made Anika an adorable lady bug cake. She loved it and also had fun blowing out the candles. I'm sure we sang "Happy Birthday" to her a couple dozen times throughout the day and a few more at her party. Anika would get a big grin on her face when we sang and would often join in.


Here is Grandpa Aune and Grandpa Hardman. Somehow I missed Grandma :(
We read a lady bug book and sang a lady bug song.

Anika got a super small set of legos for Christmas, but Than and I found a sweet deal for about 6x more for 2x the price on e-bay. You can also see her "Lily's Potty" book that we had to buy from the library because she was peeling off the back.

We had pizza, a super spinach salad (Anika just had toppings), and clementines.


Lately she has really enjoyed when we have a "picnic lunch" or "picnic dinner." Her birthday was the perfect time for another "picnic dinner."

She had fun with the red balloons. Than and his mom would blow one up, not tie it, and then let it go flying around the room. Once each adult blew up a balloon, and we all let them go at the same time. Her facial expression was priceless. I wasn't thinking, so I didn't really get a picture of it.

We did hang up some of the crepe paper. Today when I was finally starting to take it down Anika said, "Don't take the Christmas tree down. It makes me sad."

Friday, January 13, 2012

Getting Better

Sorry for the delay in updates.

Seth and I are doing well.

He was able to start eating again and did well so he got the IV out.

He wasn't going to be able to come home at least until Tuesday the 12th but after discussing things with the pediatrician we were able to take him home late Monday a few hours after I was discharged.

His cute hat seems to already be too small :(

His bilirubin count was high enough that Tuesday night he had to start the bili bed.
Thankfully we had him home but it was still a bit rough.

Anika says, "He doesn't like the lights." By Friday he got off the bili bed but Anika still tells us that.

We had a few more bumps along the way, but things are going well considering.
I am starting to feel better. My hematocrit was 40 before Seth was born, went down
to 22 and is now on it's way back up. Yesterday I was up to 26.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Baby Brother Seth

Seth _____ Hardman
Saturday, January 7th, 2012
9 lbs, 19 inches
7:50 pm

Anika finally got to meet Baby Brother

Seth has a little bit of blonde hair

Anika giving Seth a hug

Daddy and Seth

Waiting for Seth to come back to our room

Anika got to open a gift from Seth. It is a moose that does the Mexican Hat Dance and it is one of her most favorite toys ever (we've checked it out from a parent resource center a few times). She wanted him out of the box immediately. As soon as we told her it needed batteries and that Emily would help her get them at home, she just wanted to leave. The toy is pretty annoying, but how much she loves it is endearing.

I started having contractions at 4 am. They were pretty intense from the start. I did manage to have
VBAC with no meds. I had a really odd labor that never stabilized, even through transition.
I had the most random contractions - the intensity, the time between, the length.
My experienced midwife (30ish years as one) thought it was really weird and unusual,
but I continued to progress so it worked. I guess.

The placenta came out within several minutes after Seth was born, but then I hemorrhaged really
badly and lost over a liter (1200-1300 cc) of blood. The midwife and nurses were sort of frantic
for awhile trying to get me to stop bleeding. Someone was constantly massaging my stomach,
they gave me pitocin, I got a shot of something else to help stop the bleeding, they were stuffing
several things up into me (I still don't know what), the on-call doctor came in... It was exciting.

I seem to be getting better. I am really tired, dizzy and weak. I fainted last night after going to the bathroom, but luckily two nurses were holding me and all I did was sort of a face plant into my bed. I have an IV and my red blood cell count is pretty low but so far barely haven't needed a transfusion.

Seth was doing really well. We enjoyed him being in our room, nursing well, and Nathaniel even commented on how it was nice that we didn't have to worry about all the cords like we did with Anika. But he has sort of digressed. He spit up (amniotic fluid, meconium, blood) a couple times - which could be normal. Then he did it again and we called the nurse in by saying "My baby's choking" as the nurse had told us to do. He just really struggled for a little bit. Then Seth did quite well through the night but has had several more episodes of this today including a more urgent choking where he was pretty dark purple all over and was rushed off to the nursery. The nurses got him breathing again, but he still continued to spit up and choke. He had some oxygen for a little bit. He also had an X-ray and some blood drawn. Now he is in the Level 2 Special Care Nursery with an IV for the night. He is being monitored to figure out if he has some sort of stomach or intestinal obstruction or problem. If he isn't doing better in the morning then he might have to go to Primary Children's to see a surgeon. It has been a real downer to have all of our exciting success turn the corner, but the overall outlook is a little more positive than not. So we'll be praying for him and you can too :)

Friday, January 6, 2012

Anikdotes

Anika will be 2 next week! Since Baby Brother isn't here yet I'll go ahead and catch up now.
(Sometimes I think he is holding out so he can share a birthday with her on the 14th.
If he doesn't come by Tuesday, I think I'd just as well have him wait.)

I should have posted half of this a couple of months ago, but better late than never so I don't forget. I've been jotting notes about cute/funny things she has been doing, but I need to write it out and add some pictures.


Anika has been doing some pretend play. She will sometimes make lunch or go to work.
She will come tell me, "I need a hug... and a kiss. I'm going to work." She brought me her coat,
I helped her put it on and then she headed for the back door (Nathaniel goes out the back
because he rides his bike) as she told me, "See ya. I'm going to work."

She has also been mothering her dolls a lot. She takes them on walks (around the table), feeds them,
puts them down for naps, wakes them up, takes them to work, reads books and sings to them,
dances with them, puts diapers and bibs on them. They mostly just nap though. Anika will tell me that, "She's tired. She needs a nap." and runs to get a blanket or dish towel and put her doll down.
Often it is just a few moments until, "She's awake!"

Here is a doll, bear and monkey taking a nap.

Some of the first songs she sang were:
Rock-a-bye Baby - "Rock a baaby. Rock a baaby."
Row Row Row Your Boat - basically the title over and over (maybe forgetting one "row")
If You're Happy and You Know It - I don't remember how she sang it, but she would clap too. One time I finally figured out that she was saying, "Shout Hooray" as she raised her arms into the air.

Some of the first stories we would hear her talking about were:
The Three Little Pigs - "Wolf knock a door." "Puff, puff and blow house down."
The Very Hungry Caterpillar - "A big fat capillar." "The egg POP."
Goodnight Gorilla - there is a page where all the animals say goodnight. Nathaniel and I will
both often read each "goodnight" with a different sound. It is funny to hear Anika saying "goodnight"
over and over but some with a high pitch and others a low grumble. She also talked a lot
about the animals getting out of their cages.
Little Black Sambo - "Black Sambo sad."

I am a Child of God was one of her first favorite songs to request. She would ask us to sing it all the time. There were plenty of nights that I sang that song for all of her bedtime songs. One Sunday in church the congregation started singing the opening hymn. Anika noticed the singing, was quiet for a minute, and then she got upset and asked for "I am a Child of God." She finally agreed that we could sing it later.


Now she sings and "reads" books all the time. We can't get enough of it.
"Having ever seen a snake BAKING a cake..."
"Roll it and roll it. Mark a B. Tossss for baby Emmy."
I especially love to hear her read Hop on Pop, Froggy gets Dressed
("Frooogy, you a got your underwear."), You Are Special, Two to Cuddle...

Books are always being transported throughout the house. She also likes to get a big stack and then go through each one. At the library she got book after book off the shelf (I kept trying to stop her
but it was no use), but finally she sat down and looked through every one.

I picked her up after a neighbor watched her during an appointment and I noticed that half of their books were off the shelf and in a pile on the couch. It had "Anika" written all over it.

One day she was running back and forth between her room and mine. She brought in about 20 books,
ne at a time, and said the title of each book as she dropped it into a big pile on the floor.

Getting "wrapped up" is one of her favorite things. She asks us to "Wrap my up"
all the time and wants help wrapping her dolls and animals.

She had a very enjoyable phase where she called everyone and everything a "Silly Goose."

Anika often asks to "help" and "see" while we are cooking or doing similar activities. For awhile she was on the counter or a chair next to me just about everyday while I made our lunch.


She likes to cover her eyes and wander around as she steps on things and crashes
into the bed, closet or wall.

In this picture, Anika put on a hat and is sitting where she can see herself in our big mirror.

She knows much better now, but apparently Tom Brokaw and a few members of MOTAB are also grandpa.

We have a few currant bushes. One of them is a black currant bush. She ate them like candy! No kidding.
he would often take our hand (or the hand of anyone that was over), try to lead us to the back door
hile asking for "gapes." Our grapes were still ripening at the time, but thankfully she could
ave some of those as the black currants were dwindling.


She likes to say, "What's that noise?" A few of her books have a similar phrase. Sometimes she will use her finger to make a tapping noise on her teeth and will then say, "What's that noise?"

Trying to hold a book up with her legs.

Pretending to nap with her monkey.

Anika is wearing Baby Brother's blanket sleeper bag thing. The bear is wearing Anika's onesie,
and she is trying to put a diaper on him too. My mom got her some doll diapers for Christmas.
They were a hit and we don't have her diapers all around the house anymore.

We've only been swimming a couple times since summer, but she still loves it! We went a few weeks ago and she continues to talk about it. "I went swimming!" We've been mini golfing a couple times in the last few months too. She often reminds us, "I went golfing a Conner (a neighbor boy we went with)."

We also made it to Temple Square. She enjoyed the lights and cried when we left the shepherds.
Ever since she has been talking about the "Big temple." (I had explained to her that temples were bigger than churches.) She often asks to go see the "Big temple."

Anika had her first haircut. I don't have pictures, but it was Friday, December 2nd, 2011
if she ever wants to know. She did surprisingly well.

She loved trick-or-treating and got the hang of it pretty quickly. We used her candy
(what we didn't eat) mostly for potty-training treats. She didn't know to call it candy,
but would ask for a "trick-or-treat" after using the potty.


She loves to vacuum. It took awhile, but I have finally convinced her to let me have a turn first.
It is pretty amusing to watch such a little girl push a big vacuum around. I will hold the cord as she does it, and I noticed her holding the cord for me the last time I vacuumed.

I have been doing pregnancy exercise videos lately. Anika will often join me for a minute here or there. Mostly she just marches forward and then back. She also crawls under my legs, sits on my lap, lays under me when I'm on hands and knees, and climbs all over me if I am laying down.


I think I was feeling pretty tired/pregnant this day, but she turned on the TV, switched the channel to The Price is Right, unzipped her jammies down to her belly button and sat there and stuffed glue gun sticks and buttons down her jammies for quite some time. I figured it couldn't be too harmful and enjoyed the break.

One day she made her bear's hand hit something and then went and put him in time out.

One of her animals has a flap in the back that covers the place for batteries. I heard her say "check" and she pulled it open and said "nope" and closed it again as though she checked his diaper.

I woke up from a little nap and wondered if Anika was awake (or if she had ever fallen asleep). I went to the bathroom and when I flushed the toilet I heard my answer from the other room, "Yay, Mommy went potty!"

Monday, January 2, 2012

Overdue


New Year's Eve (my guess date) came and went.
We don't have a plan other than that I have an appointment tomorrow if I don't have a baby first.
We are hoping to avoid a scheduled induction though because I am attempting to have a VBAC.

I didn't get much of this late-pregnancy experience with Anika. I have definitely slept less well, been more achy, been wondering day after day when Baby Brother will be here, and have a little pregnancy-induced carpal tunnel. My hips often hurt when I sleep so I roll over a lot. One of the weirdest things is that
when I am on my left side my right hand falls asleep. When I lay on my right side, my left had falls asleep. During the day some of my fingertips are often numb or asleep too.

I am seeing a group of midwives, but I am more involved with their supporting doctors than others because I am trying to VBAC. I had an appointment with one about 3 weeks ago now and he guessed 1) I would go past my due date, and 2) that baby was already 7-7 1/2 lbs! He got the first one right, but if he was right about the second, I hope baby hasn't gained too much weight since then! But we'll keep you posted :)

The Things She Says


I have no idea where she got this phrase, but the other day while pouring water
from one container to another during her bath Anika said, "I'm making a delicious pie."

After another bath she said, "I probably need my robe."


We were all in the kitchen and Anika started saying, "Fat baby. Fat baby." We looked around to
see what she was talking about and noticed her pointing to a cake mix in an open cupboard.
Apparently the Pillsbury Dough Boy is a fat baby.

A few days ago she repeated her latest favorite phrase about a hundred times. She would stand in any doorway (or anywhere really) and say, "See ya. See ya later. Have a good day." and then she would walk away. Seconds later she would be back. "See ya later. Have a good day" and would then close a door.

She'll bring one of us a book to read and will tell us, "It's a GOOD one."


After almost any type of phrase she says, she will sometimes add, "Okaaay?"

Sometimes she will say something and then add, "sometimes."


Other fun phrases:

"That's great!"

"I knew it!"

"Gosh kid."

"No please."

"I want to come too!"

And finally, if she needs to get something from another room, she'll hold up one finger,
and very earnestly tell us, "I'll be riiiight back."

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